The poet Edgar A. Guest wrote: “I’d rather see a sermon than hear one any day!” Shortly after the close of the Civil War, one Sunday morning a former slave found his way into a fashionable church in Richmond, Virginia while communion was being served. As he walked down the aisle, a rustle of shock and anger swept through the congregation. But then a distinguished gentleman, sensing the situation, immediately stood up, went forward to the altar and knelt beside the black man. The congregation was really captured by what the gentleman did, and joined him at the front of the sanctuary. Who was that gentleman? It was Robert E. Lee, former General of the Confederate Army. Without saying a word, Robert E. Lee had given a powerful example for others to follow. In the wake of the Civil War, he had treated this former slave as his Christian brother.
In the early days of my banking career we had a particular teller in our employment who was notorious for not staying at her window. She was easily distracted, and for her the customer was not first. But one day she was cured! When she left her window that morning and became preoccupied with something else, the bank president (whose desk at that time was in full view of the teller area) went and waited on the customer himself! He didn’t say a word to the teller, but he didn’t need to. What he did (by going and waiting on the customer himself) was a silent rebuke to her.
In a sense, Jesus did the same thing in the Upper Room. As the disciples argued among themselves about which would be the greatest, and who among them would land the most prestigious position in Christ’s Kingdom, Jesus began to pour water into a basin and silently wash their feet. The Gospel writers don’t indicate that there was any conversation between them–that is, until Jesus came to Peter (John 13:6). (And it was Peter who initiated the conversation, not Jesus!)
But the point is that what Jesus did, spoke louder than anything He might have said. He, who was the King of Kings and Lord of Lords, was stooping and taking on the role of a servant. The disciples should have been washing Jesus’ feet, and not vice versa. “I have set you an example, Jesus said, “that you should do as I have done for you” (John 13:15). St. Francis of Asissi is quoted as having said: “Preach the word at all times. If necessary, USE WORDS!”